Breaking Bonds to Rebuild: The Next-Gen Monogamy Revolution

Belinda Tobin
10 min readMar 10, 2024

In a society where the very fabric of monogamy is being questioned and scrutinized, it’s time we took a hard look at the traditional models of exclusive partnerships that have dominated our cultural landscape for centuries. Monogamy, as we’ve known it, is undergoing a transformation — a metamorphosis that’s challenging the norms and expectations we’ve held onto, often blindly. This provocative exploration into the next generation of monogamy, or Monogamy 2.0, seeks to unearth the possibilities of redefining love, commitment, and partnership in a way that aligns more authentically with our evolving human needs, desires, and the undeniable complexity of our emotional landscapes.

The Crumbling Facade of Traditional Monogamy

For too long, monogamy has been painted with a broad brush — depicted as a one-size-fits-all solution to love, security, and happiness. It has been seen as a merging, a locked-in contract of love, depicted by the Mk1 Model of Monogamy below.

Figure 1 — The Mk1 Model of Monogamy

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Belinda Tobin

Author. Series Executive Producer of the Future Sex Love Art Projekt. Founder of The 3rd-Edge and The Addiction Healing Pathway.